And also you can't just decide to feel atracted to the same sex from one day to another, some girls and guys too but specially girls say that not wanting to give oral sex makes you fake gay, that's just stupid! I had my first homosexual experience when I was abused as child. I started to think about sex when I was about nine years old. And all this while having a healthy sexual relationship with my husband. That the idea of homosexuality was simply wrong.
Because people in between exist.
Why would people 'choose' to be gay?
And some people choose homosexuality. Constantly going against your most basic urges to stick to a choice you made at an unspecified point? It's something that is genetically part of you from birth. The Kinsey scale should only be there as an illustrative example of the fluidity of sexuality, not some other peg to hang your sex hat on. But those who argue that homosexuality is a choice invariably assert that it is a wrong choice.
The things I love about my husband have nothing to do with him being a man but the person he is, so those things could just as easily be found in a woman. Even though you may not be born gay it is still a part of you. In the early nineties, living in the shadow of the Aids epidemic, educated under the restrictions of Section 28 and before the age of the internet how was I to know any better other than the courage of my own convictions? Therefore the only thing questionable is what turns us on. And why wouldn't all gay people stop being gay? In some cases an insecure person who starts to mastrubate early tends to oftenly "experiment" with fantasies of men like myself which in the end can cause you problems in your further sex life obstructing your emotions. Are you physically attracted to the opposite sex?