Not only are you saying that it's more masculine to be a top, but you're saying that you should be ashamed to be a bottom. Gender and sexual identities. So part of the thing that you have to ask yourself is, 'What am I comfortable with? The New Topping Book. Bottom may also describe a wider social context of submission within a romantic or sexual relationship, though this element does not apply to all people who prefer to bottom.
A top is usually a person who engages in the penetrative role during sexual activity; for men who have sex with men MSMsthis often involves penetration using the penis during anal or oral sex.
Greenery Press, A versatile bottom is one who prefers to bottom but who tops occasionally. If you received the kiss, you're the submissive one. Find sources:
So part of the thing that you have to ask yourself is, 'What am I comfortable with?