They are convenient but many of them have a hard plastic nozzle. You only need a few drops of this to mix into your silicone lube. When I first started receiving anal, I thought all you had to do was take a dump and wham — you were ready to get plowed. Keep it in your pants. Putting yourself in the right position can make it easier to insert the nozzle. Remember, the more you freak out about it, the more powerful your anxiety will become.
But when your bottom is fully accustomed to being penetrated, the tissue will make way each time, and you will be thrilled as it does so.
Be Prepared for Anal Sex
Do not try to push it in. But I know plenty of guys who identify as exclusive bottoms. You can get this stuff in a saline Fleet enema or you can also make normal saline at home by combining a half teaspoon of salt with a cup of water. The mucosal lining of your intestines and colon is much more sensitive to temperature than the skin on the outside of your body. Become aware of the different sensations and pleasure points. Keep it in your pants.
These require you to be extra careful with your douching. I want to spend a few moments on this particular issue because it is of vital importance. Fantasize about the guy you want inside of you as you masturbate. The same tissue that feels such intense pain can also feel sublime sexual pleasure once the pain goes away. Once you are mentally ready, you need to get physically prepared. The irony is that I didn't know any of this when I was a sexually repressed teenager. Figure it out for yourself.